Dating after divorce at 45
I had women pull me aside and, in hushed tones, tell me about "the Egyptian" — a mysterious, swarthy Pan. The last time I wasn't half of a couple, Boy George wore eyeliner. My adored nephew Frankie, who moved in with me after my adored husband moved out, learned on his 22nd birthday that he had cancer.Women spoke wistfully of their dates, which weren't so much "dates" as "appointments."I would have settled for a nonsensual magician at this point. Eventually, one of the candidates would win the election, otherwise known as my heart. Candi-date Number 2 was a Texas real estate entrepreneur. Find a real man, not a self involved 40 something man child. Men who are over 40 and never married are worth their weight in trouble. I just have to save my ladies some time and tell the unvarnished truth. Truthfully, for me, being single was fine — and probably a good idea. " My dateless period continued unabated, but again I was distracted: divorce, kids, and — oh yes, why not — the big C. Then, with the exquisite sweetness of an eight-year-old: "If I stab someone, Mommy, do I have to go to jail?
Had a few dates with a man who was 45, never married, no kids. Or just because they are big fat selfish douche bags.
These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who, is not ashamed of what she wants sexually, unlike the younger girls of his own age who are often confused about just about everything, including their romantic and sexual desires.