Poly faithful dating
In this article and this one I discuss the things about dating women over 33 and how to navigate some of the problems they present.
“Younger” women, therefore, are women age 32 and under.
Things that used to be enjoyable to her, like sex on the first or second date, or very casual sexual relationships, are now suddenly horrible and largely unacceptable.
Intelligence / Conversational Ability – This one is a little tricky, and it’s the only one where the two basic categories of “younger” and “older” aren’t enough.It’s also true that there are some older women who will absolutely blow your mind and body during sex.Yet overall, I have to say that younger women tend to be better here.If you feel the same way as I do, most relationships you’ll have will be with younger women (under age 33 or so) simply because most women over 33 won’t ever get to the point of having a relationship you, because they’ll insist on making you wait too long for sex, causing you to next them and go have sex with the 26 year-old around the corner who make you wait. In terms of keeping a reliable schedule for meets and dates, younger women are difficult, and VYW are extremely difficult.
Of course you could follow a more traditional, beta male type of dating, where you have five or more dates before you have sex (ugh, kill me), and thus get more relationships with older women, but getting to sex slowly like that isn’t what this blog or my books are about. Older women, even those who are single mothers, tend to be more reliable and less flaky.
In other words, a 18 year-old is going to be easy during pickup/dating phase and an absolute cluster fuck during the long-term relationship phase, whereas a 28 year-old is going to be less easy during pickup/dating and less difficult during the relationship phase. They are absolute nightmares in the pickup/dating phases, but if you are somehow able to persevere, put up with all the ASD, bullshit, woman logic, and ridiculous demands (and in the case of the fast sex model, get very lucky with sex that occurs relatively quickly), then ongoing relationships tend to be easier and more reliable with these women.